Dealing with the Shame of a Domestic Violence Arrest

Posted by Haitham Amin | Oct 29, 2021 | 0 Comments

If you're facing a domestic violence charge in the Bay Area, you're no doubt worried about what will happen and how a criminal conviction might affect your life. But you're also undoubtedly ashamed of your arrest and worried about how you can explain this to your family and friends. You're not alone. The police field more than 160,000 domestic violence calls in California each year. It's important to remember that you are innocent until proven guilty, and you have legal options. An experienced California defense attorney can make recommendations for your best possible defense. In the meantime, don't discuss your case with others, but you should feel free to see a therapist.

Don't Discuss Your Case

While it can be tempting to try to explain what led to your domestic violence charges to family or friends, you shouldn't discuss your case in detail with them. If you say anything incriminating, they may have to repeat that information to the police or on a witness stand. It's also not a good idea to talk about any aspect of your case on social media, even if you think you're anonymous. These records can also be subject to a subpoena, and you don't want a tweet or photo to come back and haunt you later.

Seek Counseling

Even if your domestic violence charge is overzealous prosecution, seeing a therapist can help with the stigma and shame of a domestic violence charge. First, you'll be showing the prosecutor and the court that you've sought help. Second, you'll have an outlet for the anger, shame, and hopelessness you may be feeling while dealing with the criminal justice system. However, it's important to understand that your discussions with your therapist may not be privileged in some cases. Your attorney can guide you on what your therapist can and can't reveal in court and whether you should waive your therapist-client confidentiality.

Hire a Skilled California Defense Attorney

A domestic violence conviction can affect every aspect of your life. A criminal conviction can affect your child custody and visitation rights, your job, and even your future career prospects if you hold a professional license. That's why it's essential to retain an experienced defense attorney to guide you through this process. At Amin Law, our skilled Bay Area criminal lawyers understand that you need zealous advocacy and compassionate representation. Give us a call at 415-851-4300 or contact us online to set up a consultation.

About the Author

Haitham Amin

Haitham (Sam) Amin has been a zealous advocate for his clients since he started his career at the Office Of the Public Defenders in Solano County. He continued as a Deputy Public Defender at the Marin Office Of The Public Defenders until he embarked on to private practice in 2012. During his tenu...


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